MissDerpDark

This is how you forgive the person who broke your heart. You forgive them by giving yourself time to heal. This doesn't happen all at once. This doesn't happen overnight. It's a slow progression. You take two steps forward and four steps back. Sometimes it won't make sense. But you grow a bit stronger, a bit more resilient, every single day. Even if you don't always see it. You forgive them by focusing on yourself. Stop pouring your energy ti toxicity. You unplug. You unfollow. Practice self-care. Reread your favorite books and go out with your friends, laughing and remembering how good things can be when you surround yourself with postivitiy. Tell your broken heart it's okay to take a break - to remember how to smile again. You forgive them by removing yourself from the situation. The longer you dwell in it, in the heartache, the more it festers. It's difficult, but you have to leave it alone. Honor your emotions. Honor your feelings....

In the beginning, things were perfect. We were happy. We were loving. We were kind to one another. Moments of separation were slim to none and when we were apart, it seemed like a lifetime had come and gone. Filled with desire, we burned for each other. Inside of us were inextinguishable flames. Yet, as so many predicted, our flames were soon put out. Well, yours was at least. Mine was still burning. The fire in me never died because you replaced your flame with a flashing light. At the time, I couldn't recognize the difference between an authentic and an artificial flame. So, I didn't notice the change. But honestly, it didn't even matter. Because soon enough your light grew dimmer and dimmer until it was completely black. But even that did't stop me. I kept trying to reignite your flame with my fire. but it was like lighting a candle in a room with no air. Still, my flame remained in tact and burned only for you. Until maybe, the clouds in my e...